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Post by godsrachel07 on Jun 14, 2007 21:04:12 GMT -5
Why is it that you can love someone so much that you fight for them through all kind of people and things and no one seems to respect your relationship no one respects the fact that you are married to that person they tell your husband/wife that they still love them they act like their ex did wrong by moving on they bring arguments and problems to that marriage I don't understand why the disrespect and rubik you are the love of my life my questions are not tores you its to who ever it applies To and guess what not many here like or respect me but I don't care I was the one you said I do to and I said I do to you I will Love and fight for you like no one ever did I do know how to value and love you and be honest
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Post by tender on Jun 15, 2007 10:27:21 GMT -5
People can be disrespectful towards relationships for many reasons. Like for instance, I was disrespectful towards a female because the guy she was with was someone I felt should have belonged to me. But they were only boyfriend and girlfriend. I refuse to disrespect a husband and his wife because I believe that they are a unit. Many people who are disrespectful towards husband and wife are people who simply don't value families. It's a sad reality, but just know that there are special consenquences set aside just for those kinds of people. I have been told a few times before that once you become married, you should only keep married couples as your friends. It makes life simpler I think, but because I'm not married I can't really say for sure. My advice would be to just block them out of your lives. Not by avoiding them or anything, (although that may work too) but continue fighting them off as you have been doing. Make it clear that it's necessary for the both of you to not be around them. You have to really understand what time it is. It's not like it used to be back in the days so you have to stay on your toes and keep fighting. As long as the two of you love each other unconditionally, and are faithful and loyal to each other, then you should have nothing to really worry about because as a unit you will only grow stronger.
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Post by godsrachel07 on Jun 15, 2007 18:28:56 GMT -5
THANK YOU TENDER THAT IS VERY TRUE YOUR ADVICE IS HELP FULL I JUST WISH THINGS WHERE DIFFERENT I TAKE ME AS AN EXAMPLE I DONT HAVE ANY OF MY EX IN MY LIFE ONLY MY SONS FATHER AND WE BARELY EVEN TALK I JUST CANT DEAL WITH CERTAIN PEOPLE DISRESPECTING ME AND GOD FOR THAT MATTER
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Post by tender on Jun 18, 2007 10:36:23 GMT -5
Then don't deal with them. If it's hurting you that bad then talk to Rubik. He will see that and will have to take your side over theirs no matter how good of firiends they were. If they're hurting you and you are a part of him then they are hurting him too. Just don't deal with them.
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Post by godsrachel07 on Jun 19, 2007 7:08:13 GMT -5
Rubik knows already and he has chose not to talk to them and to be honest since they want to be like that I could care less the only one he talks to is ellen and I don't mind because she is like a sis to me and she has respected our marriage she has even helped us and may god always bless her for that she really gave me a chance to get to know me and now she is my sis I am Happy that atleast she respects me and thank you for the advice its very helpfull tender
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Post by tender on Jun 20, 2007 9:41:11 GMT -5
U R WELCOME .
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Post by lori201 on Jun 22, 2007 12:38:09 GMT -5
so that is why you two arnt talking to me ok you dont think that i respect your marriage thats fine im sorry that you both feel that way
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Post by Rubik on Jun 22, 2007 16:25:37 GMT -5
All I know is you can be friends with your ex only if they respect your current relationship. You can give them a chance and even warn them but if they don't listen than you must cut them out of your life. Marriage is something God puts together and married people should not let anyone or anything break them apart.
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Post by lori201 on Jun 22, 2007 18:19:23 GMT -5
i understand that but you shuldnt forget the others that helped you when you where in need and rachel i do love jared but it will NEVER interfear with you guys marriage and i would love to be your friend but i dnt knw where to begin??
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Post by godsrachel07 on Jun 30, 2007 22:00:53 GMT -5
Hey rachel how are you rubik says hello
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Post by windfall06 on Jul 2, 2007 22:19:24 GMT -5
well guys i think that you rushed into it but i still respect you and would never interfere with what you have because rubik willalways and forever be my brother and you my sis i love yo u guys
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Post by godsrachel07 on Jul 7, 2007 21:10:25 GMT -5
we love you to but i dont believe or feel we rushed into anything we are very happy together and i love rubik with all my heart i just feel that certain people need to respect me as his wife that i am they had there chance and blew so just be happy for us im sure he would be happy for them
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Post by windfall06 on Jul 9, 2007 19:09:05 GMT -5
i understand and agree cuz i feel that certain people are intefering with my relationship with chris and intefering with the fact that im pregnant
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Post by lori201 on Jul 27, 2007 3:16:41 GMT -5
hey guys my number has changed cause of reasons but if you want it email me and ill gie it to you
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Post by windfall06 on Aug 11, 2007 19:45:56 GMT -5
lori just call me
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